CHIXY'S CORNER

Everyone deserves to be respected in any form of relationship be it romantic, casual, even relationship ‎with family members. I've come to realise that one of the reasons why people consider leaving or ends a relationship is due to disrespect some people just can't stand to be disrespected. Respect is a necessary element for any relationship to grow so it's important to feel respected in a relationship.   It's rather unfortunate that most people that are held in high esteem in relationships are the most disrespectful ones. It's really sad that folks takes advantage of the ones that actually cares for them and that's very disrespectful of the other.  Personally I believe that folks should set‎ boundaries in relationships that should be respected and not be crossed by both parties.   I remember as a teenager when we used to write and receive " Love letters " one question asked then was " what are your likes and dislikes" lol. Looking at...

How cruel can people be? A Dallas, Texas  –  Matthew Louis Reese , 31 pleaded guilty to assault with a deadly weapon, aggravated sexual assault with serious bodily injury and sexual assault to a 15-year-old child. ‎ Matthew wasn’t attracted to  women his own age so he ventured onto a chat line where he met a teenage girl.. At the time the teen would claim to be 17-years-old, although later the same night she would confess to being 15-years-old..     While that age would definitely scare most men and turn them off, it actually enticed Matthew.  Even more exciting to Reese is the fact that the young girl told him that she’d never had sex or kissed a boy. In December 2012, When her parents discovered the girl on the phone with Reese, he convinced her mother that he was 18 and they let him continue to have contact with her because the 3-year-age difference was no big deal.. Little did the parents know their 15-year-old teenage girl w...

A herbalist has been arrest in ondo for allegedly killing his girlfriend after giving her concoction to drink in other to terminate her pregnancy. According to Vanguard, detectives in the Ondo State Police command have picked up a suspect in connection to the death of a 20-years-old undergraduate of the Rufus Giwa Polytechnic, Owo. The victim Wunmi Agbeluyi was a student of National Diploma (ND) Science Laboratory Technology (SLT) impregnated by her herbalist boyfriend. The pair had initially planned for an abortion which led to the suspect giving her a concoction to drink. It was further gathered that few days after the victim took the said concoction she developed severe abdominal pains. The suspect later took the victim to a local hospital with the hope that they could flush out the remnant of the pregnancy but it eventually led to more complications.   Wummi was later transferred to the State general hospital where she died due to the persistent pains she su...

 On the red carpet of The Future Awards Africa 2015 Judging from recent events, it's like the pair have decided to give their marriage a second chance. They have been teasing fans on Instagram with a possible hint of reconciliation.  On her birthday Maje posted a birthday message for Toke reminiscing about her career beginnings and ended it with you are so blessed, I Love you @tokemakinwa. Have a spectacular day. Wow!  They were spotted together on Sunday night at The Future Awards Africa 2015 at the intercontinental hotel Victoria Island Lagos. How nice!  I wish you guys the best.  The picture Maje posted on instagram with the message. The message.       chixy

The wife wrote — I married at 30 and thought I’d made a great choice in my husband. I didn’t go for looks or superficial things like some of my friends. I didn’t need love at first sight. I chose someone who seemed to be a good person: a friend whom I grew to love. Over the years, however, he started to get very moody and nasty and I had to tread on eggshells, as did our two teenage children. We had no sex for the last two years; it was infrequent before then. But he could be good company and from the outside we seemed the perfect couple. A month ago, my son went to use his father’s smartphone and found links to a gay website. He then searched and found a second mobile phone. On it were dozens of explicit texts from men my husband had had sex with. It’s been a complete bombshell. I’ve found out that gay men often marry (an estimated four million in the U.S.), but when their lust for men doesn’t go away, they take their anger out on their wives and children and make our lives...

578 Kim Kardashian  and  Kanye West have baby #2 -- she gave birth to a boy early Saturday morning ... about 3 weeks before the due date. They announced the birth on Kim's website saying, "Mother and son are doing well." The due date was Christmas day, but  Kim just had a feeling he was coming early. She posted a selfie when her contractions started last night, saying ... "Ready whenever you are. LOL"

What would you advice a teenager whose parents want to give out in marriage instead of going to school? "Dear Pulse, My name is Maryam. I am 18-years-old from Kano State. I have a big problem and I hope your readers can help me with good advice on how to deal with it. I finished my secondary education last year with one of the best results in my school and I did very well with my JAMB. I was given admission into the Bayero University, Kano, to study Mass Communication but my father does not want me to further my education because he does not believe in the girl-child education. Rather, he wants me to get married to his friend, a man who is 68-years-old with grand children older than I am. Even going as far as secondary school was through the efforts of my mother who did everything to see that I get education. I have six older sisters and all of them were married off very early but I know the impact of education in today's world and I really want to get educated so ...