CHIXY'S CORNER

After throwing a major shade @ Mexicans, Donald Trump has been under fire.

UPTH INVADED BY STUDENTS .  I just got a distressed call from someone trapped in UPTH due to an invasion by the students.  Apparently a student was brought to UPTH yesterday and due to lack of bed space she was asked to go to another hospital. She died on her way to the hospital. Then some of the students went back to the hospital last night  to vandalise ‎the properties. This morning they have blocked eastwest road which have built up traffic preventing people from entering the hospital. People are trapped inside the hospital due to this invasion.  This is calling for the Government and security agencies to do something about it.

  I've been following the news of the disgraced reality star Josh Duggar and his shocking double life. Josh Duggar is the eldest son of Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar. They have a christian reality show on TLC " 19 kids and Counting". TLC suspended their show when josh publicly apologised for molesting five girls including his sisters. He confessed to cheating on his wife Anna and having an addiction to pornography. Few days ago a porn star and a stripper Danica Dillion 28 confessed that she had sex with him while his wife was pregnant with their fourth child. It's just one dark development after another for the reality start.  What kept me wondering was the addiction to pornography. I've read and watched in reality movies where married men come out to confess that they have/had a porn addiction. I started wondering why and started reading about it.    With what i've read so far married men watch porn for different unhealthy reasons. • they enj

.   Let me start with a question. Can a woman be married and still feel single? The answer is a very big "YES".  Some married women living with their partners ‎feel very single. They feel so lonely  emotionally and physically  in the relationship. Even though these married mums have a spouse to help them with their emotional needs, household chores, parenting and managing the home they end up doing everything alone.  A recent survey by TheBump.com and Forbeswoman.com found that most women feel overwhelmed when it comes to parenting responsibilities. According to their co parenting survey of 1,200 mum's 70 percent of working mums and 68 percent of stay-at-home mums feel resentful towards their partners because they felt the parental and household responsibilities were divided unfairly. Their husbands are expected to act like " The man of the house" they claim to be. They should step up and share the responsibilities of managing the home equally.

  ‎Sir Austin Opara You are the best uncle There could ever be Everyone in the family knows How proud I am, to be your sister An uncle whom I love An uncle, for whom I care An uncle to whom I can lay my heart bare An uncle who I adore An uncle who I admire To be like. Being a sister To an awesome uncle like you Is a blessing People who are blessed with good uncles like you In this world are few Role model, hero, Mentor and superstar All of these combined is what you are, All the uncles of the world would be put to shame If they had a chance to meet you An uncle so fun with a heart of Gold. Today I'm just so Glad to celebrate you Cos you're the best Uncle God has blessed me with. Happy birthday uncle Austin.

Has  Caitlyn Jenner  lost the support of her famous family? According to a new report, the 65-year-old's former stepdaughters   Kim ,   Kourtney   an d   Khloé Kardashian   have "turned their backs on Caitlyn" in the months following her transition. There's not a lot of love for Caitlyn," a source tells   Us Weekly , citing moments from her reality show,   I Am Cait , in which the   Kardashians expressed their disappointment over the transgender star's June   Vanity Fair   article. " Vanity Fair  was the start of the downfall," the source reveals of the negative statements Caitlyn made in the mag about ex  Kris Jenner . "It came out and they looked like idiots, they first saw the article on Twitter!"Another insider shares, "The Kardashians were furious once they realized she took jabs at Kris, a lot of times she wasn't very nice. They are so incensed that they may be done with Caitlyn for good." With the fo

  I've realized in recent times that when certain people comes for advise they already have what they expect to hear from you in mind and will be highly disappointed if they're not told what they wanted to hear.  Most times the people pleaser in us doesn't want to disappoint them so we give in.  I've also realized that some people have perfected the act of telling people what they want to hear or what they think they want to hear instead of the truth.  The truth, is telling people what they want to hear or what you assume they want to hear have consequences the person is more confused, the person will end up making decisions that are harmful.  Yes most people wants to live in La- La land where everything is ok, they can't handle the truth. But the pain of the truth is much less than the pain of lies and deception and having ones ego bruised. When we tell people what they want to hear or what we think they want to hear we set all parties involved up f

  The 35-year-old TV personality originally went missing in West Hollywood on August 18, but was found in a Motel 6 room three days later,  the Hollywood Reporter confirms. According to the Los Angeles Coroner’s Office, the cause of death has not yet been determined, even following an autopsy.Tobias appeared on a 2014 episode of E!’s plastic-surgery series Botched, where he revealed spending over £100,000 in order to look like Justin Bieber, referring to the pop star as “extraordinarily beautiful.” Following the show, he quickly became a viral sensation online, appearing on websites such as Reddit and Imgur and trending on the likes of Twitter and Facebook. He also appeared on TLC’s My Strange Addiction and had been pursuing a music career.

Agony of a Fat girl.  A fat girl lives a miserable life because of what is going on around her, today fat is seen as very offensive by the society. Everyone has a comment on her body and feels the need to air their views, some nicely while others dish it out harshly. Most fat girls spend their days hiding and very angry at themselves for letting themselves go.  Unfortunately the society has done more harm than good to fat girls.  The skinny girls are seen as the hottest ones and are given more attention, Only few people/guys pay attention to fat girls. The rest see them as taboo.  Fat girls are being Judged by their size and not who they really are.  Check this out.  • shopping is actually a nightmare for a fat girl. Imagine walking into a boutique and being greeted with we don't sell your size here. Ouch!!!! That hurts.  Or you're told to pay more for a dress because more fabric was used to make the dress.  • how often do you see a fat girl in a b

Story by Nathan Nathaniel Ekpo/Nigeriafilms.com  Nollywood actress, Empress Njamah, has just been provoked by a fan who questioned how she manages to eat meals like Eba and Amala with her long nails which the fan described as 18inches. What actually prompted the scene which led to the exchange of words was when the actress shared the meal she was eating and she had long nails on, that attracted the fan to question how she copes. According to the fan, “It still amazes me how people can eat ‘swallow’ (garri, amala or eba) with an 18inches long fixed.” Empress who did not allow the matter get cool replied immediately, “Keep being amazed while those people keep eating and moving ahead in life with work and business and bettering people’s lives with same 18inches nails. Since you don turn tailor wey dey carry measuring tape dey waka! Dry sarcasm!” hahahahaahaaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! kai! she for no respond nah!

  I read on TMZ that a father Mikki Willis doesn't care about raising his kids by the " traditional rules" he said my son can have whatever he wants even a doll. So when his son picked out a doll as his new toy he was all for it. Sincerely parents should know that kids are not meant to have all they want because most gifts are harmful. Is Mikki saying that if his son comes home and demands for a gun he'll provide it for him? Because according to him his kids can have whatever they want. I know most parents wants their children to have a better life than they did, so it's natural to want your Child to have a better Education, live in a good house, eat good food ( nutritious food) go on vacation abroad, wear designer clothes, drive in the best cars , have all types of video games, bottomline your kids have things in excess to make up for your bad childhood. Families.com Wrote.  Giving your child everything they want sets the child up for a high level of f

I'm sure by now most people know how I feel about Nollywood movies. I'm not saying they're totally bad i'm of the opinion that they can do better.  So I went into the streets of port-harcourt to talk to people about Nollywood movies read their opinions bellow.  PS--- i'm writing word for word.  Question --- Good day please do you watch Nollywood movies, if you do what's you take on Nollywood movies?  Chinyere David .  Yes I watch Nigerian movies I watch some and not all. It's a form of entertainment it makes you laugh and it makes you think that what they are acting is stupid. They feel the audience don't have sense. They give you IQ drop.  Mercy Joseph.  I watch Nollywood movies they are trying now, at least the produce good movies unlike before but they should try and change movie titles, example Ibu and Beyonce, Brazilian hair war, pregnant men and lots more.  Stella Tobiah.  Way back Nollywood films were very motivating e

  When we talk about people involved in abusive relationships our minds immediately wanders to women but study shows that a large number of men are trapped in abusive relationships. In a world where so much is expected of men and where men are raised to be the controllers ‎of people and things most men are trapped in abusive relationships. I've been reading about men involved in abusive relationships recently and i've come to realise that most men in abusive relationships are ashamed to talk about it while others don't understand that they're in abusive relationships.   These are signs that you're in an abusive Relationship.  • She calls you names, insults you, compares you with other men and puts you down before people.  • She tries to control you. • she stops you from seeing friends and family members, she just wants you to herself.  • she acts very Jealous and very Possessive.  • she tries to control how you spend your money. 

Chinenye Lauretta Ufearoh-Onoh wrote Fear is a habit. Just like Defeat, Anxiety, Self Pity, Desperation, and Surrender. You can get rid of all of these negatives in your life with one simple resolution: Believing in yourself. Everything you ever wanted in life can be yours and Everything you want is out there. It is waiting for you to ask it to be yours. Everything you want also wants you, but you have to take action to get it. Believe in yourself, Sacrifice the feeling of comfort, and focus on steps that need to happen to get to your ultimate goals.

kourtney kardashian is showing Scott Disick what he's missing by posting hot bikini pictures. After she pulled the plug on their relationship of 10 years.  Kourtney kardashian has been working really hard on her body to get back in shape and she's proud to flaunt the results. The 36 years mother of three is vacationing with the rest of the Kardashians/ Jenner clan ‎in St. Barts

  Dr. Dre  is finally coming clean about allegations he abused multiple women decades ago ... saying he deeply regrets the things he did to them. It's no coincidence the apology comes on the heels of the success of " Straight Outta Compton ." Critics have pointed out the film skirts Dre's violent past with  girlfriends , a journalist, and a female rapper -- several of whom have spoken out against him recently. Dre finally addressed it with the  New York Times , saying ... "Twenty-five years ago I was a young man drinking too much and in over my head with no real structure in my life. However, none of this is an excuse for what I did." He added, "I apologise to the women I’ve hurt. I deeply regret what I did and know that it has forever impacted all of our lives." 

An Open Relationship is a relationship where committed partners agree to have sexual relations with others, studies has shown that there are couples who enjoy having sex with other people , most committed couples feels that making their relationships open is healthy for the happiness of their relationship. Surprisingly most couples involved in open relationships feels having sex with different people is a form of distraction from certain problems they're facing in their homes. In most cases they've been cheated on and wants to prove that he/she is sexually attractive. People involved in open relationships focus more on the sexual benefits than the challenges.  The concept of an open relationship has been recognised since in the 1970s. Celebrities like Will Smith and Jada Pinket Smith, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, T-Pain and Amber Najm and most Hollywood celebrities are said to be in open relationships.  The truth is, no one was born with the desire to cheat or be in ‎an

Tyga is Being Paid to Appear on 'KUWTK' as Kylie Jenner's Boyfriend   It appears as though Keeping Up With the Kardashians has a new cast member! According to a source close to production, Kylie Jenner's relationship with Tyga will be a big plot point when the series returns later this year. ‎The family has decided to integrate Tyga into the show because all of them really like him and it looks like he is going to become a part of their family,” the source tells  Radar Online . ‎But he won't be appearing on camera for love and love alone! “Tyga is getting paid per episode right now because they do not know how his and Kylie’s love line will translate in ratings, but everyone thinks it will be gold because the two of them are so great on-camera together,” the source shares.                                           ‎Apparently, E! thinks the 25-year-old rapper is a big get given that he just released an album, has his own show on MTV and is cur

  The 19-year-old model showed off a potentially new blonde do on Instagram Thursday night, The model captured this blurry pic “Ken-doll,”  

Just so you know, you're all that you need to survive in this crazy world. You should always be your "Number one fan". You don't need the eyes of others to see the good in you neither do you need anyone to applaud or validate you... you can totally do that "All By Yourself".  We live in a world where people identify with you for what you have and not for who you are. As soon as they are done milking you dry,  they will drop you like hot potatoes and move on to the next big thing.  That amazing feeling that you had when you were surrounded by people who gave you comfort, showed you love and affection, met your every need, ran errands for you even before you were done asking, just flies out the window. Then reality will set in. You will suddenly  feel like it is you agaist the world. The lonelines that you will begin to feel will be so profound that you will even loose the motivation to pursue your dreams. The same dreams that they made you fe

  This past weekend few of my friends were in town ( port - harcourt) for our friend's  father's funeral. I went to a hotel at stadium road to meet my friend Ada Babyluv. Ada ordered for drinks for my friend and I , I asked Ada if she's not having a drink and her response was she wants to eat bole and fish she insisted that she won't taste a thing until she has eaten port - harcourt bole and fish( she's not meant to know this part but she said it was another reason she came to port - harcourt) I can't say I blame her because truthfully no bole and fish in Nigeria can be compared to the ones made in port - harcourt. No offence to lagos people but I tried eating bole and peanuts  in lagos and it was horrible. Bole and fish is a street food, it's basically roasted plantain ‎and fish dipped in peppery palm oil sauce. You can call it a roadside pleasure, there's no street in port -harcourt that you won't find bole and fish spot/joint, because of

Getting dumped is never easy and the solution is usually to go out and get hideously drunk with your pals. However, the woman in these pictures made a very public statement about how she felt at losing her man. Her meltdown in the middle of a street in Hong Kong has everything - and, naturally, someone was there to film the whole thing. Screaming and shrieking as she lay down on the floor, concerned passers-by try to get her up and console her. ‎But she is having none of it. Her epic screaming session turned into an Olympic gym routine as she contorts and bends into the kind of shapes that would win a gold medal at any championship. The 24-year-old, who was apparently dumped by text (harsh), remained on the ground for 90 minutes, refusing to budge for anyone who tried to move her. At one point she was walked off by onlookers but she simply fell back to the floor again, screaming, natch. When all other attempts failed, paramedics arrived and took her away on a st

In my best Wendy Williams voice, " how are you doing"?  Nothing beats the joy of receiving gifts on special occasions from someone special, but receiving Bad Gifts is an emotion killer,a bad gift is not only a kill joy, it will also kill the worms in your stomach. Lol!!! Some people really suck at giving gifts. Ok let's put it this way, some people are not creative when it comes to gift giving. They just walk into a shop lay their hands on anything they feel is cute and bam!!! They're gone.  A lot of people don't look forward to receiving  gifts from people like this on special occasions because their gifts are not exactly worth looking forward to.  Seriously giving a bad gift takes the joy out of sharing and receiving gifts. Calling something random a gift does not make it a gift. I know that they say "it's the thoughts that counts" but the gift counts too. Some folks just needs to put more efforts in getting a gift for "someone

Comedian and movie producer AY Makun turned a year older today August 19th and bought himself a brand new G-Wagon as birthday present. Happy birthday to him

Welcome to my blog, Wow!!!! It feels good saying "my blog"!  I know that I am nervous and excited at the same time, but nothing can be compared to the joy that I am feeling right now. Words cannot explain my feeling of accomplishment. I honestly can't believe that I am starting my own blog, it's like a dream, somebody should just pinch me. Lol!! Before I bore you guys with my excitement and the phrase "my blog" let me share the reason for this excitement.  Over the years  my friends have asked me  why I am not blogging  and the answer I always gave them was that I am not a good writer neither am I a grammarian. I always see myself as not having what it takes to be a blogger.  The more I thought about blogging, the more I loved the idea but what to write or how to put my thoughts in writing has always been my major fear so i've always shoved the idea of blogging aside.  My friends will always say to me  "Chika you're doing great on fa