OPEN RELATIONSHIP

An Open Relationship is a relationship where committed partners agree to have sexual relations with others, studies has shown that there are couples who enjoy having sex with other people , most committed couples feels that making their relationships open is healthy for the happiness of their relationship. Surprisingly most couples involved in open relationships feels having sex with different people is a form of distraction from certain problems they're facing in their homes. In most cases they've been cheated on and wants to prove that he/she is sexually attractive. People involved in open relationships focus more on the sexual benefits than the challenges. 
The concept of an open relationship has been recognised since in the 1970s. Celebrities like Will Smith and Jada Pinket Smith, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, T-Pain and Amber Najm and most Hollywood celebrities are said to be in open relationships. 
The truth is, no one was born with the desire to cheat or be in ‎an open relationship the reason why these people indulge in it still remains a mystery .
Trust is something that keeps a relationship going in the face of challenges and I can beat my chest that trust is something you can't have in an open relationship.   The confidence and sexual security you desire in an open relationship will be crushed.  
Open relationship to me is a sexual adventure for committed cheats. 
Why be in a "Committed " relationship when you have the desire to be with others? Why did you take the marital vow of "committing " to just one person, when you know you'll share yourself with others? 
Personally I think Open Relationships are pointless, the term open relationship is a fancy name for committed cheat.

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  1. Anonymous8:38 AM

    A man shall not live by bread alone. You love bread but you can have it with jam, margarine, akara, stew, better still, you can have wheat bread, baguette, chocolate bread, fruit bread, etc shebi all na bread?

    Chixy, learn to share and change your diet occasionally.

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    1. Unknown12:57 PM

      What's the essence of being in a relationship if we both can't commit fully to what we have? Such arrangements is froth with dangers from emotional, psychological to diseases. Why would I want to expose myself that kind of baggage when there are serious minded men out there who are willing and ready to commit? Gerarahereeeeee!

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    2. Unknown5:02 PM

      Hahahahaa just Gerrarahia jor

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  2. Unknown1:17 PM

    The term open relationship is a fancy name for committed cheat. U said it all

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  3. Unknown5:02 PM

    Spot on

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  4. Unknown5:54 PM

    In My Opinion, It Is Relative. You Can Still Be In An Open Relation And Still Be Faithful. Have You Heard What Happened In Ashly Madison Site? Hackers Hacked Into Their Website And Leaked Personal Details Of Those That Have Used Their Site And Has Actually Paid For Sex.

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    1. Unknown5:56 PM

      Yes I did oh! And they're planning to expose people

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  5. Unknown5:56 PM

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    1. Unknown6:06 PM

      Depends Entirely On The Two Partners Involved. A Committed Relationship Does Not Guarantee A Successful Relationship.

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  6. Unknown1:21 PM

    What's the point of having an open relationship? It's better one remains single.

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  7. Anonymous10:20 AM

    I agree with Kristina! There is no open relationship, egoist created it who wants only sex! You should look for a serious relationship, https://kovla.com/blog/8-sure-ways-know-relationship-getting-serious/ this article will help you to investigate good in this theme! Good luck!

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