Village girls are no saints.

I was going to pay my elder sister a surprise visit last night to get my own yankee gifts. The traffic from my house to woji was very horrible I became very bored and started gisting with the cab man, the guy was a jolly good fellow that the traffic meant nothing to me again. Then he told me a story about a lady he desires to marry but her mum is against it because he's not their class, he's so confused because he really likes her and she likes him too. Then he added if the lady doesn't accept his proposal before december he'll just go to the village and get a girl to marry. I then asked him if a village girl is better?

He laughed hysterically and said " I actually went to the village to get a wife, she came here stayed with me for a while and started complaining that she wants to go back to the village
She's still full of life and she's not ready to get married and she left him". 

Most people are of the opinion that village girls are better than city girls in terms of relationship/ marriage.  They believe that village girls are. 
• Very good and hard working.

 • They can take care of the home front. 

• They're very romantic though naïve. 

                    • They're contented. They don't ask for too much. 

• They're easy to please / impress. 

•‎ They are not troublesome.  

• They are faithful 

•    They're submissive and very humble. 

•     They're very respectful and obedient.  

Basically relationship / marriage is heaven on earth with a village girl. 

 
While City girls are 

• Very Wild ( dem eyes tear).

•   They're disrespectful .

•   They're very competitive .

•    They're very lazy.

•     They're cheats and never satisfied with one man .

•      They can't keep the home clean.

•        They're controlling .

                                          •         They're  too sophisticated and not submissive

    •           They're very demanding.

 •            They're not contented 

Basically it's better to marry the devil than a city girl. How annoying. 
 
In my opinion village girls are good but they are no saints. They also have the same flaws as city girls if not worse. These girls are beginning to compete with city girls. You'll be amazed at what these village girls know. They're becoming more modern than the city girls. Thanks to technology and nollywood.

Some of these village girls are what some people call "mgbeke feeling funky" these ones are the ones trying too hard to imitate city girls. 

Then again for those running away from the city girls, I mean those ones who claim city girls are horrible and won't make good wives. 

Just so you know when you bring a girl from the village to city and gives her a city makeover she automatically becomes a city girl. Bare in mind that village girls are easily influenced by what they see, some starts misbehaving after the transformation. Like we say her head go begin shake because level don change. 

There's nothing like a city bitch or a village angel. What really matters is a good girl with a good foundation, a girl who can take care of you, one who will stand by you through thick and thin, one who will be a good mother to your kids, a good companion that will grow old with you, one who'll be everything you desire in a woman. That is what you should be bothered about and not a village angel or city demon.
 
 

Comments

  1. You concluded it perfectly... A girl with God fearing heart is what men need.

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  2. Village girl or city girl, marry someone who complements you nicely publicly and privately.

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  3. I Think The Cause Of Their Fear Is Insecurity Or Fear Of The Unknown. Good Girls Are Abound Both In The Village And The City. Suffix To Say That It Is This Same Fear That Will Make Some Married Men Not To Bring Their Wives Overseas With The Fears Of Them Being "Europeanised".

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    1. Anonymous4:20 PM

      my friend has two wives oversea wife and Nigerian wife

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  4. if you hear escapades of my village girls eh! you'll tear. besides it takes an insecure man to prefer a village girl and there's this belief that a village girl has lower expectations.

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